The Mythological Significance
The roots of Teej lie in the enduring love story of Goddess Parvati and Lord Shiva. According to legend, Parvati underwent severe penance and fasting to win the heart of Shiva. Impressed by her unwavering devotion, Shiva accepted her as his wife. Teej celebrates this divine union, and women emulate Parvati's dedication by observing strict fasts, seeking similar marital bliss and longevity for their spouses.
Dar Khane Din - The Day of Feasting
The festival kicks off with 'Dar Khane Din', a day of grand feasting and celebration. Women are invited to their maternal homes where families prepare a lavish spread of rich, heavy foods and traditional sweets. The feasting, accompanied by singing and dancing, goes on late into the night. This hearty meal is crucial as it sustains them through the rigorous 24-hour fast that begins at midnight.
The Day of Fasting and Devotion
The second day is the core of Haritalika Teej, characterized by a strict 'Nirjala' fast, meaning women abstain from both food and water for a full 24 hours. Dressed beautifully in bright red saris, adorned with intricate jewelry and green glass bangles (symbolizing purity and prosperity), women flock to Shiva temples, notably the Pashupatinath Temple in Kathmandu. The day is spent singing traditional Teej songs that often recount the joys and sorrows of womanhood, dancing, and offering prayers to the Shiva Lingam.
Rishi Panchami - Purification
The final day of the festival is Rishi Panchami, a day dedicated to spiritual purification. Women perform ritual baths in holy rivers or sacred ponds using red mud and special leaves (datiwan) to cleanse themselves of any sins committed knowingly or unknowingly over the past year. Prayers are offered to the Sapta Rishi (the Seven Sages), concluding the three-day festival with a profound sense of spiritual renewal and purity.